Wonder of Wonders

After I posted my last blog, I couldn’t stop thinking about my realization that my tight muscles in my upper body aren’t trying to hurt me but help me. I went to bed at 10:00 pm that night and lay there talking to my muscles in my mind, just as I had done earlier in the day during my Soften and Flow meditation.

I told my muscles that it is okay to let go and I thanked them for helping me. I used language from the Soften and Flow meditation and from the brain retraining exercises to let the muscles know that I am safe now and that it’s okay to relax. Similar to my experience in meditation, I began to feel tingling in my jaw. I put focus on my jaw, my neck, my throat, my forearms. Each area began to feel different. My forearms tingled and ached deeply. Other parts of my body softened and tingled as well, not only the front of my hips as before, but also new places like my calves and my feet. Muscles were doing all sorts of things I’d never felt before. 

I was rather surprised but tried to keep up my calming mantra and reassurances and not get ahead of myself. My jaw / TMJ has been tight for years without ceasing. No amount of moist heat or muscle ointments or cannabis has had any effect. Now I could feel all those muscles letting go, up to my eye sockets, up the side of my face to my temple, around the back of my head and my scalp. My shoulders tingled, and my neck. On the right side of my face where my jaw connects to my skull, for years I have felt a bruise-like sensation anytime I accidentally touched it. I’m truly amazed to say that it is no longer there.

I felt shifts in my throat. At some point, I felt loosening in the space between my inner ear and my throat–something actually shifted inside my body. I felt that my hearing was suddenly sharper, then it went dull, and cleared again. I looked up at the ceiling in wonder, perfectly awake at 1:00 am.

When I woke up on October 21st, I found that my forearms and my trapezius had not let go completely. But the ease with which I could open my mouth without any tightness or startling pain in my ear was so lovely. My throat pain wasn’t gone, though it was greatly lessened. I didn’t really care, because I knew now that I could help my body relax, and that’s all that mattered.

I went for a slow, careful walk, as I try to do most mornings. My left calf was so noticeably softened. How delightful the change felt. How amazing to use my poles and feel my step go gently from heel to toe, heel to toe. (Lots and lots of people with spastic diplegia, including me, land toe first or flat-footed.) I felt like laughing. I was full of joy.

I am so unbelievably grateful for this experience. I’m amazed that I get to be one of the brain retrainers who can say that there was an immediate physical change as a result of meditation. A great shift. And I did it, without drugs or procedures, just me and my own brain. 

Has it lasted? Well, not exactly. In fact, I’ve managed, through a new physical activity, to tighten up my neck and shoulders until they’re all more painful than they’ve been in years. The difference is, I have hope now.

But exactly HOW did I manage to achieve this wonderful change? How the heck did I stay awake until 1am when I usually go right to sleep during a twenty minute meditation? What was it I said? How did I say it? Can I do it again? We shall see.